Built From Their Disrespect

 Yesterday, I had a conversation with three men — one was a watchman, one a doctor, and one was well educated.

No matter what their status was, all of them shared the same audacity to look down on women simply because they are women. It wasn’t about appearance or background — it was about gender. The assumption was clear: a woman’s words, opinions, and existence itself are treated as if they hold less value.

That’s when I truly realized something painful — when a woman wants to live independently, she is still not fully allowed to. Men grow up in a society that hands them entitlement, teaching them that they have the right to dismiss, interrupt, and belittle women without consequence.

Alhamdulillah, women are blessed with empathy, emotional intelligence, and humility — yet many men are never taught to develop these qualities. Only those who truly fear God carry real respect, self-control, and compassion.

I pray that every girl finds a man who is beautiful in character — a man full of sabr (patience), kindness, emotional maturity, and genuine respect.

But reality hit me hard. In a society filled with fragile male egos, finding such a man feels rare. Each experience makes the truth clearer, and my tolerance for disrespect grows thinner.

What also grows is my determination to become so successful that no one can ever look down on me again. I cannot tolerate poverty or helplessness, because this world measures your worth by your financial power.

That is how this world works. I want money. I want independence. I want my own power Just to live a simple , respectfull life. Truth of life that is!!! 

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